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By Candice Jalili November 17, As someone who spent the vast majority of her life single, I know what Signle like to be single during tue holidays. I know what it's like answering all of those incessant questions from relatives who can't seem to understand how in the world a catch like you is still single. I know what it's like helping all your friends' boyfriends plan elaborate gifts from them when you're durijg forward to something from one person: mom. The worst part of being single during the holidays? Well, I would have to go with the loneliness. It's like, every other day of the year being single isn't that big of a deal, but then, this one season rolls around, and suddenly, your singleness is being rubbed in your face by everyone who's in a relationship.

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3 ways to own being single during the holidays

I know what it's like helping all your friends' boyfriends plan elaborate gifts from them when you're looking forward to something from one person: mom. This person has a great idea for taking yourself out on a date. Just remember — whether or not you have the desire to be with someone, the timeline of when and how to couple off, and even the seeming necessity to do so at all, is a by-product of a very heteronormative, patriarchal structure. If you are around family members or others who make comments or judgments about your status, take a beat.

This is the first time she's been single since she was Remember you are not alone in feeling this way, so "try to decouple being single from being defective," Zarnegar says.

Her mom made a funny joke when she suggested she be single. You rule!

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She's ready to finally put an END to all of those questions. So for now, embrace being single and all the freedom it gives you.

Single during the holidays

By Candice Jalili November 17, As someone who spent the vast majority of her life single, I know what it's like to be single during the holidays. Just don't start catching feelings. Yes, you're single this holiday season, and yes, your family is probably going to be extremely annoying about it, BUT there are tye silver linings. And even if you're sitting there wallowing about the fact that you know who could have made you happy, but you're just not with them, let me offer you this little piece of advice: You're not with that person for a reason.

Holiday cheer is not required. Being single during the holidays is better than getting cheated on.

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The worst part of being single during the holidays? Identify and articulate painful feelings that emerge during holidays with someone who is empathic, supportive and positive, Zarnegar says.

Single during the holidays

The holidays just rub her singleness in her face. It's like, every other day of the year being single isn't that big of a deal, but then, this one season rolls around, and suddenly, your singleness is being rubbed in your face by everyone who's in a relationship.

You are not alone in your loneliness when it comes to the holidays! He's fully bracing himself for his family members' interrogations.

She hates that all her friends are leaving her to go to the movies alone. What is the narrative surrounding it? He only thinks about being single late at night. Right now, just try to make it through in a way that feels best to you.

It might just transform into other feelings, if you do. More like this. Our emotions are often edgier during the holidays, so waiting until after the new year is the smart choice to take any deeper kind djring look into what is going on.

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Well, I would have to go with the loneliness. And as therapist Shannon Thomas, LCSW, author of Healing from Hidden Abuse tells Sinle, when we feel the pressure, we should dhring ourselves the holidays are the wrong time to address issues you have with your love life head-on, or issues you have with people bugging you about your love life. Gita Zarnegar, Ph. If there is any kind of shame or questioning from outside parties as to your relationship status, these feelings can be amplified.

It's OK to feel stirred up, annoyed, depleted, and down.

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Unfortunately, it's not uncommon for families to put pressure on your relationship status during the holidays, even though that seems pretty freakin' archaic. Shutterstock "Ask yourself, where is that pressure coming from? Who wants to apply to be his fake ificant other?!

Holdays for his family to ask about his nonexistent girlfriend! You are allowed to feel low and grumpy, and you can ask yourself what you need to do to take care of it!

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The Mariah Carey Christmas album is a great touch. Thomas says that we really "give ourselves a gift when we normalize the struggle holidays tne bring.

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Because you're the only one other than these two with no plus one at the table, and it almost seems like your family is trying to highlight this fact. While the specific reason — Sinvle it may be — that you're not with this person may not be obvious holidxys now, you'll likely find out later on and be thankful things worked out the way they did.

His singleness is getting in the way of his holiday enjoyment!

Single during the holidays

I know what it's like answering all of those incessant questions from relatives who can't seem to understand how in the world a catch like you is still single. Relieve yourself of the darkness in your head.

Why being single during the holidays is actually the best

Not having a supportive partner who can be a buffer and protector during these otherwise happy times can be very difficult for many single people. And while we're at it, who wants to apply to be her fake boyfriend? You're single because you're refusing to settle for someone who won't make you happy.

In addition to the possibility that your siblings or cousins are going all the-mom-in-Pride-and-Prejudice on you about getting a partner, if your feeling inundated with stories,and posts about love, romance, family, and connection, it's hard not to add to that with your own internal pressures and judgments, Litner says. And don't even get me started on the family members who will go to any lengths to make absolutely certain that you don't forget how everyone else is seamlessly finding love, while you seem to be, for some inexplicable reason, plagued with lifelong loneliness.

Seriously, so many applications are open here, you guys.